Victims of Domestic Abuse

What is domestic abuse?

Domestic abuse is the mental, physical and/or sexual abuse by a partner or ex-partner. Domestic abuse is often serious and sustained and can be life threatening.

Domestic abuse is not an isolated incident. It is usually a pattern of controlling behaviour which can get worse over time. Controlling behaviour includes telling someone what they can do, who they can see, how they can spend their time and undermining their self-confidence and self-esteem. Physical violence and threats may be used to maintain control.

Living with domestic abuse can also seriously affect the lives of children and young people. The Hideout website can provide advice for young people who are experiencing domestic abuse.

Help and Support

If you or your children are in danger and need help, contact the police or either of the contacts below. If you are in immediate danger phone 999.

If you are affected by domestic abuse, support is available at:

Scottish Domestic Abuse Helpline
Website: www.domesticabuse.co.uk
Telephone: 0800 0271234 (24 hour line)
Provides confidential information and support to those affected by domestic abuse. This freephone number doesn't show up on itemised phone bills.

Scottish Women’s Aid
Website: www.scottishwomensaid.org.uk
Telephone: 0131 226 6606
Provides advice, support and safe accommodation for women (and their children) who have been abused mentally, physically and/or sexually by their partner/ex-partner. For details of local groups see the website or phone the number above.

Men’s Advice Line
Website: www.mensadviceline.org.uk
Telephone: 0808 801 0327
The Men's Advice Line is a confidential helpline for men experiencing domestic violence by a current or ex-partner. Their freephone number is free from landlines and most mobiles.